Monday, June 16, 2008

生病

在王子还很小的时后,曾不小心给巫婆下了咒的漂亮玫瑰扎伤过,狡猾的毒玫瑰刺一直都静静的躲在王子的身体里,不让王子的护法天使们发现,要不然它就会被消灭掉。王子无恙的长大了。。。一直到多年后,它终于耐不住了,开始破坏...最后毒刺被拔除也被消灭了...所以,王子啊!别怕,天使会永远保护你的.

给一个生病的朋友.

Sunday, April 27, 2008

 英国生命线出版的《走出忧郁,生命依然灿烂》一书,提到一些不错的建议:

  ⒈不要试图叫忧郁症患者振作。要他们振作一点意义都没有,因为他们做不到,他们的状况身不由己。
  ⒉不要告诉他们:这一切都只是他们想像出来的。对他们来说,这个痛苦经验是真实存在的。
  ⒊不要一味批评:忧郁症患者非常敏感,一点点小批评也可能让他们陷入绝望的深渊。
  ⒋不要暗示他们必需为自己的心理状况负责。他们会因此有罪恶感,认为他们影响到周遭的人。
  ⒌不要试图强迫他们做任何事,只要不断给予鼓励与关怀。
  ⒍不要干扰患者的治疗方式。负面的字句像“不要吃那些药,它们对你一点好处都没有”、“你为什么要去看那个烂医生?”只会伤害患者的自信,增加他们心中的困惑。

  照料者应该:

  ⒈鼓励患者去看医生。
  ⒉试着表达愿意帮助与接纳的意愿。
  ⒊每天提醒患者忧郁症不过是个短暂的现象,大多数人在一段时间后都会痊愈。
  ⒋鼓励患者从事某种运动。
  ⒌千万不要轻言放弃。不断提醒自己,你的努力绝不会白费

Thursday, April 10, 2008

近来,她手里一直小心亦亦捧着一个容器,容器长得很高,几乎高过她的头,而且有点重的感觉。她捧得很吃力。。。但还是一直把它捧得高高的,像怕别人看穿葫芦里的药似的,每当有人好奇问她,她就会很雀跃的说,那只为了好玩!但。。。。

只有我知道。。。容器里装的是满满的泪水,她的泪水和故事。。。
我知道,是因为这故事是我写的,也因为,我是她的好朋友。。。

Monday, February 25, 2008

我以为我的世界很小,其实只是忘了出房门!我以为我的天空只有白色,其实只是我没有把房间漆上别的颜色。
我是个没故事的人吗? 我其实我也哭过,笑过,感动过。。。。

给DU

Thursday, February 21, 2008

那次去火星沥游,忘了把心带回来。这次去的话就牢牢的记得要把 “它” 带回来。但。。。原来那只是个梦!我却真的把 “心” 给弄丢了。
仰头看着无边无祭的星空,我慌了!我回不去。。。找不着, 摸不到,原来我的爱情没有入口!

写给我的DU!

Tuesday, November 27, 2007

You appear to others around you as a person who is simply 'laid back'. From time to time you shelve your ambitions and forgo the desire for prestige and recognition and you are often considered as mentally lazy. You have the ability and you are the first to know this, but you prefer to take things easy and indulge your longing for comfort and security.

In the past there have been - and maybe there still are - many things that you have had to do without. You have now decided to set your sights on a position or situation that could give you greater prestige and which will afford you considerable self esteem.

You feel very lonely and frustrated at this time but your shyness and modesty precludes you from establishing any deep form of relationship. You feel rather isolated and alone. You are egocentric and you believe that you are always right - well maybe you are - but you have a short fuse and are likely to take offence for the slightest reason.

It is said that we are all influenced by our environment and indeed you are no exception. It would seem at this time that even though you may be surrounded by people, you are experiencing an inner loneliness. Fortunately you are sufficiently strong minded to realise that life has a great deal to offer you and that you may miss your share of experiences if you fail to make the best use of every opportunity. You therefore pursue your objectives with a fierce intensity and are prepared to commit yourself deeply and readily. You believe that whatever you would like to do or think 'you can do' - you do! It is because of this attitude that you may be considered by others as arrogant and even conceited, but its fair to say that whatever it is that you really want out of life you will put your heart and soul into it and will not take 'NO' for an answer.

The fear that you may not be able to fulfil or realise all of your ambitions makes you work and play hard. The thought of being prevented from achieving the things you want leads you to play your part with frantic fervour.

Wednesday, October 17, 2007

我爱上了自由,被关在上班的笼子里感觉透不过气。